{"id":20209,"date":"2026-08-13T14:33:32","date_gmt":"2026-08-13T14:33:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/8657085.xyz\/?p=20209"},"modified":"2026-08-13T14:33:32","modified_gmt":"2026-08-13T14:33:32","slug":"bumble-divides-users-by-ditching-its-signature-women-first-chat-rule","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/8657085.xyz\/?p=20209","title":{"rendered":"Bumble divides users by ditching its signature &#8216;women-first&#8217; chat rule"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <div style=\"display: grid; grid-template-columns: 300px 160px; gap: 2px; width: 460px; background: #eee; padding: 2px;\">\r\n\r\n  <!-- \u6574\u884c\u5bbd\u5e7f\u544a -->\r\n  <div style=\"grid-column: 1\/-1; width: 460px; height: 250px; background: #ccc; display: grid; place-items: center;\">\r\n  <script async type=\"application\/javascript\" src=\"https:\/\/a.magsrv.com\/ad-provider.js\"><\/script> \r\n <ins class=\"eas6a97888e2\" data-zoneid=\"5876674\"><\/ins> \r\n <script>(AdProvider = window.AdProvider || []).push({\"serve\": {}});<\/script>\r\n  <\/div>\r\n  <div style=\"grid-column: 1\/-1; 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one person wrote, while another said they &#8220;really valued&#8221; women making the first move. <\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">&#8220;Women get swamped with messages, so any woman who messaged me showed real interest,&#8221; they said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">Others argued the feature had already been diluted when Bumble introduced &#8220;Opening Moves&#8221; &#8211; a feature allowing women to set a pre-written prompt for men to respond to.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">But some women said they supported the change &#8211;  or admitted they had grown frustrated with initiating conversations only to receive no reply.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">&#8220;Honestly, men barely responded when I messaged first on Bumble,&#8221; said one person, while another claimed the &#8220;majority&#8221; of men they messaged &#8220;let our matches expire.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">Professional matchmaker Sarah Louise Ryan welcomed the move, saying Bumble&#8217;s signature feature had &#8220;run its course&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">&#8220;At first, the idea was empowering, but over time the novelty wore off,&#8221; 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